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Get Your Child to Listen the First Time
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Solution: Really examine the word choices you're making. As often as you can, use positive communication when telling your child to do something. Strive to use positive phrases 95% of the time.
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Let's say that you ask your child to pick up the toys off the floor so you can vacuum. Your child doesn't pick up the toys, so you just clean up the toys so you can get done vacuuming.
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